We're visual. That's my husband and I. He's an architect; I was running an art media group. We were fighting the battle of our lives--3 years trying to have a baby. How do you put the infertility experience into words? How can they capture just how harrowing, heartbreaking, stressful, not to mention, how expensive it is? The feelings of helplessness, powerlessness you constantly feel? How raw you feel once you've hit bottom, realizing that it was just not working? I hit my